Pity Guy

As for today, I want to tell you guys a story about a friend of mine. It would be an honor if you can comment some thought, or any experience, or perhaps some advice after reading this story.

My friend is a guy yang kena tinggal dengan awek dia. Dia ni pulak, bukan jenis yang senang nak suka kat orang. It had been 3 years (or is it 4 years?) he broke up with his girlfriend. I ask him, what did you like so much about her, until you still longing for her for years?. And he said, he had done a lot of first-time-moment with her. Plus, this is the first time, he truly love someone. He said that she is not that beautiful, she is not too feminine, what he like about her is the way she walk, the way she talk, the way she dress, the way she laugh, her laugh and bla bla bla (it's too many and I'm barely can remember all of it. Sory :'( ). 

There is one time, where I went to his room to wake him up, because we had plan to hang out at the swimming pool that day. I knock the door, and then his roommate open the door. I woke him up and he did not wake up but he mumbling "aku nak dia" - dia yang dimaksudkan tu, minah tu lah, yang tinggalkan dia tu. That's one. There is also another one time, where I went to his room to wake him up to go to the clinic (he is awfully sick that day). As usual, I knock the door, it didn't open, then I tried the door knob, it's opened (he always got problem with locking-the-door things, pakkal jek dia sakit masa tu). I woke him up, then he wake up and asking me where is she. And I was speechless and clueless, I'm wondering who the hell is he talking about? Then he walked out the room with a rush, as if searching for something important. I followed him. Then he went back to his room, sit on his bed and staring the floor. I just looked at him. A few seconds later, he is fully awake, and I took him to the clinic.

I asked him, why both of them broke up. He said, he did not know the real reason why she breaking up with him. She didn't tell him at all. He still searching for the answer until now. He used to said to me that he tried to open his heart to some other girls. But, whenever he with that girl, dia mesti teringatkan minah tu. Last2, dia undur diri dari hubungan tu, atas sebab, dia takut perkara yang sama berlaku macam dia dengan minah tu, dia taknak lukakan hati perempuan tu.

For me, he is a kind guy, have pure heart, and quite gentleman. Tapi kenapa ada perempuan yang sanggup tinggalkan dia? Mungkin perempuan tu ada sebab dia sendiri, tapi kenapa biarkan kawan aku nih tertanya-tanya? As a friend, I should be sad about this. 

What do you think? Are you experiencing the same thing as mine?